OUR SUBCULTURES

     It has been said that America is a melting pot. That is to suggest our country is made up of people who have migrated here from all over the world and, so to speak, become Americanized or melted into a single identity.  I prefer to say that America is more like a casserole.  In other words, a dish garnished with a flavoring sauce of respect, honesty, fairness, freedom, justice, loyalty, kindness, and openness to each other.  Each American has the right to pursue one’s own destiny and yet retain some the characteristics of a subculture from which one emigrated or emerged.  Having said that, it seems we are a unique society that embodies the morals and values of the U.S. Constitution our founding fathers developed to cherish democracy.   

    With the above ideas in mind, I decided to look at the subcultural panorama of our country from the 20^th to the 21^st century.  In the early part of the 20^th century subcultures were mostly informal groupings of like-minded people.  In the 1920s and 1930s America faced the Great Depression that caused widespread unemployment and poverty which found its expression in urban youth gangs. The Dust bowl disaster forced large numbers of rural Americans from Oklahoma (the “Oakies”) to move their families west. The 1940s brought our country into World War II. The subculture was still jazz and swing and the zoot suit craze diminished. The process of rationing and black marketing was taking place.  Post-war America saw the popularity of the radio bringing a wider subculture of rural jazz and blues as well as big bands.  Now, that was the first burst of mass media creating the spread of large subcultures.

    The 1950s brought on the American Beat scene that eventually emerged in the 1960s to the subcultures including radicals, rockers, bikers and hippies.  By the1970s the subcultural interest in computers brought on the derogatory word “geek” which grew as a term with pride.  Some followers of the punk- rock movement in the 1980s eventually took on the genre in American urban environments referred to as a street subculture combining athletic break dancing, developing as Hip hop and rap.

     I look at the primary generations of today, namely: Gen Z, I Gen, or Centennials:  born 1966 and later: Millennials or Gen Y:   Born 1977 to 1995: Generation X:  1965 to 1976; Baby Boomers: Born 1946 to 1964; Traditionalists or Silent Generation: 1945 and before.

    Then, I look at what I have written in this article and I wonder what will the youth of today consider important to the well being of our American culture. I ask myself, in what direction are they going? I have confidence in them knowing that even with adolescent vicissitudes they have the intelligence and integrity to make great contributions to our country.  I would like to believe that those of our Silent Generation will leave them a positive legacy.

 

FOR THE LOVE OF A DOG

     I do remember when, in my childhood, we did have a dog as our family pet.  But, since then until now I don’t have one and I don’t intend on having a pet.  Yet, my experience a couple of weeks ago has increased my respect for dog owners tremendously.  Our granddaughter has been visiting us and we were invited to join her when she decided to visit an animal rescue center and consider applying as a part time volunteer.  So, we went with her to the “Big Dog Ranch Rescue” (BDRR) at14444 Okeechobee Blvd. Loxahatchee, FL.  33473.  I am quite aware that there are many rescue centers for dogs and other animals.  There are many places for saving elephants.  Even on television there is a program called “Pit Bulls and Parolees” that provides adoption service.  But, my first and only visit to the BDRR was an education I will never forget.

     My understanding is that the mission of the BDRR is to rescue, rehabilitate and find a home for over 5,000 dogs a year.  It is recognized as the largest dog rescue in the country and with a large 33-acre cage free campus designed to save the lives and be the happiest place for dogs while they make the transition from being homeless to a new home.  It is a large nonprofit organization supported by donations, paid personnel and volunteers who assist part-time. I sincerely appreciate the BDRR effort to provide a facility that need not be a sad place for dogs.  Over the past 13 years, through April, 2018 over 25,000 dogs have been saved. It is a most impressive facility.  

    There are at least three or four buildings, each providing private compartments (called Runs) for each dog.   In some cases, dogs which had bonded with another when brought to the rescue center are sheltered together.  Each Run door has a large window which could be lifted so that someone could reach to pat a dog.   Whether the window is opened or not, each dog reached up to look out as you approached and looked at you as if to say, “Please let me out.”   As I watched each dog, I couldn’t help but compare the scene to a prison cell.  There was a back door to each Run that opened into a playground area like a park that allows dogs to run around, get exercise and, I guess, socialize with other dogs who also had released time.  Care, food, grooming and medical service is provided.  There is a sign on each door giving its name and breed. With all the volunteers and professional staff, no dog is neglected.   As a matter of fact, I noticed one dog was tethered on a leash and lying on a soft cushion in the hallway.  I asked one of the volunteers why it wasn’t in a Run.  I was told that its owner had recently passed away and the dog needed some time to adapt to the transition of being in the rescue center before being assigned to a Run.

     Nevertheless, with all the support, care, compassion and understanding given these dogs, they look at you as if to say,” Please take me home.”  My low-level sensitivities really touched me emotionally. The whole environment appeared to be similar to a prison.  My respect and honor go for the love of a dog.

 

HAVING AN OPINION

    First of all, what is an opinion? It is a judgment, viewpoint, or statement that is not conclusive. It is often compared to a fact which is verifiable. When we express an opinion in writing or orally, we may sometimes expect a response.   I think we can understand that we are all entitled to offer an opinion. But, in some sense, there is usually a response anticipated.  For example, if someone might state that generally, vegetables are healthy foods to eat and present a whole set of facts from experts to substantiate such an opinion, then it is highly unlikely there would be much opposition to that opinion. 

     Unfortunately, there are occasions or situations in which opinions are rendered which are not substantiated by facts.  They may be motivated by one’s personal emotions regarding some bias they may have toward another individual’s attire.  In such a case, what one may be experiencing is an unfair judgment. It could be one feeling envy, jealousy or resentment in not having the personal comfort one assumes the other is experiencing.  Such an interpretation is merely speculation.  But, an important inference one can make is that all the unemotional facts regarding the opinion were not known or considered.

     It is very easy to offer opinions because they often come off the top of our heads without taking time to think before we speak and taking time to reflect upon our own personal self-concept. We need to recognize facts relating to the situation.  Sometimes, we can be our own worst enemy building negative thoughts and opinions that are fundamentally, unfair to one’s self as well as others.
    When we refer to collective or professional opinions, they are usually defined as meeting a higher standard because they are substantiated by a larger amount of evidence but may be still subject to factual verification.  In the final analysis, being vigilant in evaluating opinions is very valuable and sensible. 

 

 

 

 

A SENTENCE FOR ALL

 

    We all have sentences to write but, we don’t know how, where, when or in what way

they will end.  Nevertheless, we can write our story.  We have the ability to make plans and prepare a text and layout groundwork that can be interesting and exciting.  So, we begin our journey and see that some of what we want to happen works out well but, there are occasions where a trip we take or a career we start falters because of circumstances we can’t control.  An accident can occur or illness hampers you.  Yet, we find we are able to rewrite a chapter and make things turn out better.  Our story has many many sentences that bring happier endings.   
   Sometimes, we sit back from the desk and rest to collect new thoughts to prepare for a new adventure but, someone interrupts your writing and offers you different ideas to write.  It seems that these new thoughts for a moment are fascinating. Yet, it seems as if what is introduced to you makes you feel uncomfortable or even intimidating.
  After all,you realize these new thoughts are not part of the theme you are developing.  What is important to you is that the sentences you write are a true meaning to bring you happiness.  It isn’t always easy to write sentences that please others.  But, so what? These sentences are yours and only yours.
   As you get older you find new inspirations to write sentences that allow you to share your feelings with others.  So, your sentences have more eloquent words and your friends find those you express are effective.  You find that your sentences can offer you and others peace of mind.  The sentences become valuable to comfort you as well as others.
    What you read each day can make you sad when you read sentences that tell of horrific incidents.  Those sentences are devastating and frightening.  You need to continue writing sentences that recapture the value of life and restore more love and human understanding of the value of life.  Children especially need to read sentences that give them courage to know that their stories can have happier endings.  Write sentences that provide parents with the support to know you care about them and that their sentences can have new chapters.   

  

 

    

 

ACCORDING TO HOPE

How often do we express hope?  Do we really believe that hoping will make it so?  Or, do we express hope to convince ourselves that whatever we hope for can be the answer for our thoughts? What is hope?

According to the dictionary, it is defined as the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best. As a verb, it includes “expect with confidence “and “to cherish a desire with anticipation”. Its opposites include feelings of rejection, hopelessness and despair.  Overall, hope is an optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one’s life or the world at large.

Positive psychologists such as Barbara Fredrickson recognize that hope comes into play when crises loom in one’s life by opening new creative opportunities. She asserts that a wide range of ideas, as well as positive emotions, can arise from one’s self awareness such as empowerment, courage and joy. She says hopeful people are “like the little engine that could by keep telling themselves “I think I can, I can”. Such positive thinking occurs when based on a realistic sense of optimism, not on a naive “false hope”. Charles Snyder and Alfred Adler linked hope and willpower with determining a reachable goal. Snyder postulated that there are three main things that comprise hopeful thinking: (1) Goals-approaching life in a goal-oriented way, (2) Pathways-finding different ways to achieve your goals, (3) Agency-believing that you can instigate change and achieve these goals. Snyder believes that hopeful people can accomplish these three goals with perseverance even when obstacles get in their way.

It seems that being optimistic is an inherent component of hope.  One of life’s greatest challenges is be positive in one’s thinking regardless of the obstacles we face or the dreams we have for the future.

BEING THANKFUL

When we watch television or read a newspaper we are often inundated with devastating news such as murders, terrorism, or horrific incidents like in Las Vegas and Newton, Connecticut. Undoubtedly, these events are upsetting and very depressing.  It seems that internationally, we are faced with the possibility of nuclear war. Yet, we do have the opportunity to be thankful for the saner moments we have.

This November 23, 2917 is Thanksgiving Day in America.  It was first held in 1621 at Plymouth, Massachusetts when the pilgrims arrived on the Mayflower.  This holiday has become a tradition to give us the opportunity to express our thanks for the blessings we have despite the sadness and depressing events that face us personally or socially. It seems that historically, it was not an easy time for the first settlers but they found help from the Wampanoag Indians who taught them how to cultivate the land. Eventually, the first Thanksgiving was held for three days with the Indians invited as guests.  Imagine how meaningful the holiday was for the first settlers.  It was a true blessing for them after a grueling trip across the ocean.  You might say they were some of our earliest immigrants.

It wasn’t until the 1660s that the holiday took on any significance. The author of “Mary Had A Little Lamb”, Sarah Josepha Hale is thought to be the person who persuaded Abraham Lincoln to make Thanksgiving a national holiday.  In 1863 President Lincoln made Thanksgiving a national holiday to be observed on the last Thursday in November to be the national day of Thanksgiving.  It was traditionally a religious and cultural celebration.  Today, similar holidays exist in other countries throughout the world in which people hold ceremonies to give thanks, common in almost all religions and cultures, especially after harvests.

It is particularly interesting to know that our friendly neighbor Canada was thought to have its first Thanksgiving in 1578.  It is believed that it occurred when an explorer Martin Frobisher held a Thanksgiving celebration for surviving his journey from England.  Some believe that these celebrations can be attributed to French settlers who came to New France in the 1600s with the explorer Samuel de Champlain. He celebrated successful harvests which were shared with the native people and had large feasts of thanks. However, most Canadians consider Thanksgiving a statutory holiday.  There are other places or countries such as Germany, Japan, Grenada, Liberia and some Caribbean islands who celebrate a variety of Thanksgiving holidays.  Most important is the observation that many people throughout the world take time to give thanks for the blessings they have. It’s the dedication toward life that has value.

 AMBULATABLEBALANCE

Demographics is referred to as a particular sector of a population usually described by data such as age, sex, education level, income level, marital status, occupation, religion, birth rate, death rate, average family size, and average age.  We could have gathered some of this data to describe our community when it first opened in 2001 and then again, perhaps now in 2017.  But, it really isn’t necessary because our armchair observations reveal that the age designated for residence in 2001 was 55 or older. That means the average age today is probably closer to 80 or more.  Furthermore, there are many residents who have passed away or even moved.  So, where does it leave us?

 We know that there are new homeowners who have come here to address the 55 or over age range.  That leaves us with a diverse sample of people living here. So, that means there is more disparity to meet the needs and address the interests of our inhabitants.

Let’s put the above information aside for a few minutes and look at what is most important for us. That is our longevity.  Certainly, recreation and entertainment are essential for one’s well being. How aware are we in managing what I refer to as our “ambulatablebalance” It is the blending of our mental and physical activity. It is one thing to play tennis, golf, pickleball, bowl or ride bicycles and swim.  Some people in their senior years become sedentary, inactive or passive. Consider living a well-balanced life as we get older. We all ultimately face medical issues that can be mental or physical.

 Consider the following tips:

 1.  Nurture yourself:

      If you don’t get proper rest, you will be tired of any activity.

      Eat food that is healthy and not binge just to relieve a disappointment

2.  Set your priorities:

     Examine your values and live by them.

     Accept who you are and avoid self-pity.

3.  Expect what is unexpected:

     Roll with the punches.

     Know that feeling unhappy passes

4.  Build an efficient mindset:

     Plan ahead and be organized.

     Don’t delay what needs to be done.

5.  Use your head:

     Find time to read and learn.

     Know that to learn is ageless.

6.  Activate an Ambulatablebalance

    Take an easy walk ambulate (move).

    Balance your physical and mental state.

 In the final analysis, it’s important to realize that the balance is to understand that the glass                                                                   is

“Not half empty but half full”.