OUR PERSONAL SPACE

    Before the onset of our present pandemic, I always respected one’s privacy. Yet, there were often occasions when we shook hands, hugged each other, and even kissed.  Now, with a serious need to protect ourselves and each other, we have the coronavirus national guidelines for America. They are especially important. They provide us with the opportunity to save our lives and those we love. Now, each of us is faced with virtually separating ourselves from each other. We refer to it as social distancing. Such behavior emphasizes our concept of privacy.

    I recall that our privacy also includes protecting our personal space. In that sense, we still need to understand that regardless of social distancing, we no longer must be so concerned about, so to speak, breaking our personal space.  I’m talking about those times you might remember. We do not like to have someone stand so close to us that we smell one’s breath or perfume.  I remember being asked to avoid using fragrances when seated in an audience because other persons may have allergies to which they could be sensitive. Maintaining our personal space can also protect us from stress or possible aggression.

    As long as we maintain our isolation the way it is, we can be comforted to know we are in charge of ourselves. We can find ways to enjoy our privacy and not succumb to stress. Yes, television and computer technology can be a vicarious pleasure and even contact each other. Remember,

“AN OUNCE OF PREVENTION IS WORTH A POUND OF CURE”